Well, whatever I am, remember you are my wife; we were married an hour since, in the presence of all these witnesses.
Chapter 18 · Edward Rochester
Context
After the charades performance in which Rochester and Blanche acted out a wedding scene, Rochester playfully tells Blanche to remember they are now married, referencing their theatrical performance.
Analysis
Rochester's imperative "remember you are my wife" stages marriage as already accomplished through performance, collapsing the distinction between theatrical representation and social reality. The phrase "in the presence of all these witnesses" ironically invokes legal marriage language, making the parlor game echo an actual ceremony. For Jane, overhearing this, the line carries bitter dramatic irony—what Rochester plays at with Blanche, Jane cannot hope for in reality, turning entertainment into a rehearsal of her own exclusion from marriage.
Essay Tip
Support a thesis that theatrical performance in the novel exposes the constructed nature of social roles—Rochester's joke reveals marriage itself as a kind of public performance requiring witnesses and scripts, questioning whether any social identity is more "real" than the parts people play.